The human mind is truly the culmination of God’s creation. With the mind we can invent, create, reason and do many things when we are in control. However if the mind takes possession of us then we can be led to wayward ways. The mind can be boon or a bane depending on how we use it.
One of the many things that we have to be extremely careful are the illusions of the mind where we can be led astray and made to believe things that are not necessarily true. Many times we develop a certain negative bias towards somebody or something. What happens after that is that we tend to be overly critical of them or it. We just fail to see their positive points and only focus on their negativity.
There are other times when we just get led by designations or honorific titles and start imagining greatness where there is none. We start associating great learning or divinity to people simply because we cloud our mind and reason. The faculty of reason and understanding can be easily covered by our imagination. We then will fail to see things in their proper light. Our mind will start exaggerating our ideas and opinions more than what is real. We will be unable to differentiate between the real and the unreal.
The mind is a wonderful instrument if we use it properly. However if we start to assume things without associated reasoning then, the mind, can turn into an enemy putting into our heads wrong notions. This happens as a result of lazy thinking when we assume things or jump to conclusions without any proper basis. We are all guilty of lazy thinking, at some times of our life, simply because it is less work. This is something we should particularly careful about.
The mind is a beacon of real understanding as long as we use it wisely and are free from biases and opinions. When we start being judgmental or begin to begin to imagine power and greatness in mere designations and honorific titles the mind because covered in the darkness of unreason. We then lose the ability to seeing things in the real light.
Hence it is imperative that in all our interactions in daily life we always look at things with a balanced perspective, neither being too critical nor jumping to conclusions too early.
Saturday, April 23, 2011
The Value of Patience
In order to achieve anything in life we need to have a plan. Then we have to put the plan into action. One essential ingredient to success of the plan is the need for a liberal amount of patience in achieving it. This vital ingredient is generally missing in most of us. Most of the times, we are extremely impatient and want everything to happen immediately.
Whether we are learning a musical instrument, or we are waiting for exam results we are always on tenterhooks to know the result. In our impatience we tend to mess up things in the process. Similarly we want our children to learn everything and excel in what they do almost right away. We never have the patience to let them learn in their own time. We try to stuff things into them and expect immediate results.
Patience requires us to think deeply about things. We must learn to understand that many things in life take their own time. There is no point in trying to hurry things up. The real issue is that the mind of an impatient person keeps nagging continuously. If we don’t address this nagging thought we will never be able to get rid of it. It will keep popping up again and again. We just want the end result immediately. This is really characteristic of impatience. Trying to contain impatience is like trying to hold a balloon under water. The moment you let go off the balloon it will pop up to the surface.
What is needed is that we must address this cause of impatience in us. We cannot wish it away or try to distract our minds by focusing on other things. We need to look at this nagging thought and reason with ourselves as to why things will take time. Unless we satisfy ourselves consciously and unconsciously we will never be able to contain the impatience in us.
Our mind is very logical and will listen only to sound reasoning. We cannot fool ourselves by trying to think of other things or trying to mask the impatience in us. We cannot pretend to patient while all the time holding nagging thoughts in our mind. We must focus on our impatience and set our minds at rest.
Patience requires a quiet mind and a lot of mental maturity. If we have patience we will achieve a lot more in our lives
Whether we are learning a musical instrument, or we are waiting for exam results we are always on tenterhooks to know the result. In our impatience we tend to mess up things in the process. Similarly we want our children to learn everything and excel in what they do almost right away. We never have the patience to let them learn in their own time. We try to stuff things into them and expect immediate results.
Patience requires us to think deeply about things. We must learn to understand that many things in life take their own time. There is no point in trying to hurry things up. The real issue is that the mind of an impatient person keeps nagging continuously. If we don’t address this nagging thought we will never be able to get rid of it. It will keep popping up again and again. We just want the end result immediately. This is really characteristic of impatience. Trying to contain impatience is like trying to hold a balloon under water. The moment you let go off the balloon it will pop up to the surface.
What is needed is that we must address this cause of impatience in us. We cannot wish it away or try to distract our minds by focusing on other things. We need to look at this nagging thought and reason with ourselves as to why things will take time. Unless we satisfy ourselves consciously and unconsciously we will never be able to contain the impatience in us.
Our mind is very logical and will listen only to sound reasoning. We cannot fool ourselves by trying to think of other things or trying to mask the impatience in us. We cannot pretend to patient while all the time holding nagging thoughts in our mind. We must focus on our impatience and set our minds at rest.
Patience requires a quiet mind and a lot of mental maturity. If we have patience we will achieve a lot more in our lives
Thursday, April 21, 2011
The Lure of Praise
As human beings we are all susceptible to praise. We all crave for attention and hunger for appreciation. In fact the motive for most of our actions is the need for attention and the desire for praise. The desire for success is only half the story. The other half is the desire for the fame and praise that we will get as a result of success.
Such is the lure of praise that nobody is immune to it. The craving for appreciation is intrinsic to human nature. This basic need for attention and human validation is a probably very primitive and one our most basic needs. It is deeply ingrained into the human psyche.
When we get praise we want to strut about and when somebody criticizes us we feel crushed. We want people to acknowledge our achievements. We want this acknowledgement to come from as many people as possible.
Unfortunately we tend to base our self-esteem on the appreciation that we get from others. If none is forthcoming we feel let down and not sure of ourselves. This is not a good attitude. Ideally we should be above praise and criticism but this is difficult to do. However we should have a balanced approach and should not based our self esteem from external validation. Our self esteem should be solely based on the targets we set for ourselves and how we achieve it.
So having understood the basic need for appreciation and praise we should consciously make an effort to increase the world’s fund of happiness by being liberal in our appreciation of good effort of others.
We must make sure that we acknowledge and appreciate genuinely from our heart even small acts of others. It will definitely make the other person happy. We need to do this often and to as many people who deserve it. This will definitely create a cycle of happiness and goodwill among others. The only caution is that insincere praise is not only bad but is also injurious to the other person who may end up with completely wrong ideas of himself/herself.
If we make a habit of giving appreciation where it is due we can go to bed content that we were able to increase the world’s happiness level in our own little way.
Such is the lure of praise that nobody is immune to it. The craving for appreciation is intrinsic to human nature. This basic need for attention and human validation is a probably very primitive and one our most basic needs. It is deeply ingrained into the human psyche.
When we get praise we want to strut about and when somebody criticizes us we feel crushed. We want people to acknowledge our achievements. We want this acknowledgement to come from as many people as possible.
Unfortunately we tend to base our self-esteem on the appreciation that we get from others. If none is forthcoming we feel let down and not sure of ourselves. This is not a good attitude. Ideally we should be above praise and criticism but this is difficult to do. However we should have a balanced approach and should not based our self esteem from external validation. Our self esteem should be solely based on the targets we set for ourselves and how we achieve it.
So having understood the basic need for appreciation and praise we should consciously make an effort to increase the world’s fund of happiness by being liberal in our appreciation of good effort of others.
We must make sure that we acknowledge and appreciate genuinely from our heart even small acts of others. It will definitely make the other person happy. We need to do this often and to as many people who deserve it. This will definitely create a cycle of happiness and goodwill among others. The only caution is that insincere praise is not only bad but is also injurious to the other person who may end up with completely wrong ideas of himself/herself.
If we make a habit of giving appreciation where it is due we can go to bed content that we were able to increase the world’s happiness level in our own little way.
Monday, April 18, 2011
The Great Indian Technical Ladder Rope trick
Organizations in India from time immemorial have been very hierarchical and bureaucratic. Designations and titles carried a lot of weight. Promotions were strictly based on seniority and rarely on merit. However the west followed a different model in the 80’s where the organizations had a flat structure. A Technical Manager generally managed several highly qualified technical people. Designations and titles lost their significance and the culture moved towards meritocracy.
As many IT MNCs setup shop in India in the late 90’s, the organizational mentality also had to undergo a change. As the MNCs moved some of very key technical areas for development /maintenance by their Indian counterparts, there was a need for more qualified senior technical people. Soon many Indian IT organizations started to have two streams, one for those interested in a pure management role and another for those interested in a technical career.
However the only catch was that the technical ladder, like the great Indian rope trick, would disappear after a few levels into thin air. A technically qualified person could virtually disappear into thin air as he rose up or be stuck at the level at which the rope disappeared. However the Management ladder was and is truly the “stairway to heaven” to more weighty roles like VP, SVP, and EVP and so on.
This is really a malaise typical of the Indian IT industry which is very knowledge intensive. In India, a senior technologist is considered to be a nerd. The general perception among senior management in India, about qualified technical people, is that they are only good with computers and are incapable of handling people. Technical professionals are stereotyped into being only good with their machines and with little or no idea about people dynamics.
What is generally not understood is that the Senior Technical experts have to interact with everybody from senior management, sales people, developers and misbehaving programs. Many technical experts who have been in the industry for a couple of decades should be able to juggle programs and manage people with equal ease.
Unless India gives more importance to the highly qualified experts in the organization and has levels in the technical ladder, which are on par with the VPs and SVPs, there is a little chance of the country producing the kind of breakthroughs that a Google, Microsoft or Facebook does. There is no dearth of good software talent in India. What is truly lacking in our system is an environment where expertise and knowledge are given real recognition. . In fact this has been the primary reason that Indian IT has been playing catch up to the western counterparts for a long time. In Indian IT organizations people switch to project and people management early in their career and those who on the technical ladder lose the steam to learn new technologies because of the indifferent treatment meted to them. The organizational culture should be based on meritocracy and technical talent should be allowed to grow and mature. Organizations should create a climate of sheer technical excellence where top technical talent is given due recognition and respect. This is extremely critical in this age of increasing technical complexity where there is a need for people with deep understanding and knowledge to move the edge of progress further.
Clearly, any technologist who can comprehend complex algorithms and identify the root cause of a system crash/outage will surely be able to understand the company’s balance sheet or the organizational cash flow situation with some effort. Besides, as these technologists move up the hierarchy they can be given roles where they decide the business strategy based on technological trends. They can provide major inputs into the technological roadmap of the organization.
In order for India to increase its clout internationally in this knowledge era, it is very essential that the Indian IT organization nurture bright talent and provide them a clear path into the upper strata of management. The technical ladder should extend all the way to the very top. If this is done it will herald a new era in Indian IT and India will be software force to reckon with in future.
Saturday, April 16, 2011
Eternity Now !!!
It is our common experience that “time and tide wait for no man”. To most of us time just keeps on moving inexorably and we have no control over it. To a large extent this is true. Most of us just drift about in life and the rivers of time drags us swiftly forward continuously.
In our finite lives we are governed by time in all the things that we do. We are hard pressed for time whether it is job deadline, an impending exam or an event that we are organizing. We are so overwhelmed by the thought of the event that anxiety and worry take over us while we watch helplessly as the juggernaut of time just rolls by.
Is there a way out of this? Well yes. What is needed is complete focus and attention. When we focus fully on the task at hand then time will almost certainly slow down. When there is absolute attention we will realize that we have a lot more time to get things completed. An interesting analogy is that of a computer’s CPU. A faster CPU has more processing power for example K GHz or K gigacycles per second. What a faster CPU does is that it is able to accomplish more operations per second and hence can perform a lot more. Similarly when there is absolute attention on the tasks we have our minds starts working at faster rate and we can achieve many times more than when we have no focus. When there complete concentration it is almost as though we are zooming into time which will seem to expand almost infinitely. This is also one of the reasons why many people perform much, much better under situations of extreme stress and pressure.
So we should never get anxious or start worrying that we are running out of time. If we can focus our complete attention span we will almost expand the time at our disposal to infinity.
Also we should never feel that we are too old to do certain things. A common grouse that a lot of people have is that they are already too old and have no time to do many things that they desire. Actually nothing can be farther than the truth. Not only is it never late to start but whenever we start we almost have infinite time in the future as long as we concentrate our efforts on what we want to achieve.
Hence by focusing fully without anxiety we will almost certainly have an eternity now!
In our finite lives we are governed by time in all the things that we do. We are hard pressed for time whether it is job deadline, an impending exam or an event that we are organizing. We are so overwhelmed by the thought of the event that anxiety and worry take over us while we watch helplessly as the juggernaut of time just rolls by.
Is there a way out of this? Well yes. What is needed is complete focus and attention. When we focus fully on the task at hand then time will almost certainly slow down. When there is absolute attention we will realize that we have a lot more time to get things completed. An interesting analogy is that of a computer’s CPU. A faster CPU has more processing power for example K GHz or K gigacycles per second. What a faster CPU does is that it is able to accomplish more operations per second and hence can perform a lot more. Similarly when there is absolute attention on the tasks we have our minds starts working at faster rate and we can achieve many times more than when we have no focus. When there complete concentration it is almost as though we are zooming into time which will seem to expand almost infinitely. This is also one of the reasons why many people perform much, much better under situations of extreme stress and pressure.
So we should never get anxious or start worrying that we are running out of time. If we can focus our complete attention span we will almost expand the time at our disposal to infinity.
Also we should never feel that we are too old to do certain things. A common grouse that a lot of people have is that they are already too old and have no time to do many things that they desire. Actually nothing can be farther than the truth. Not only is it never late to start but whenever we start we almost have infinite time in the future as long as we concentrate our efforts on what we want to achieve.
Hence by focusing fully without anxiety we will almost certainly have an eternity now!
Monday, April 4, 2011
Behind the thinking mind ...
We are what we think. We are often told that we should think good thoughts since we become what we think. Hence when we think good thoughts we are filled with cheer and positivity. While on the other hand when we are pessimistic in our outlook we tend to become defeatist in our attitude. So while a large part of our life is made up of the thinking mind there is an equally large part that is played, behind the scenes, by our non-thinking mind.
By this I mean that there is lot of non-verbal, non-thinking activity that is performed by the mind. As we go through the day we experience several incidents and interact with a lot of people. While a lot of our interactions are accompanied by verbal thought, there is a large portion that is handled by non-verbal thought. There are many incidents of the day that are handled by this non verbal mind which absorbs the incident and organizes it into its appropriate slot.
Actually behind the scenes this non verbal mind makes a judgement, opinions and draws conclusions based on our inner values, likes and dislikes. Hence behind the thinking mind the non-thinking mind works incessantly in its own way. So don't be surprised when you find that you like or something intensely without you realizing it.
This is also the reason why sometimes we cannot explain why we sometimes are so inexplicably sad, or happy or why we feel drawn towards someone or something. All this is the work of the non verbal, thoughtless mind.
Hence while it is true that a lot is done by the non-verbal thought, this mind is based on our past memories, our values, beliefs and thousands of years of human evolution. So while we have no immediate control over this non-thinking mind we can essentially train this mind through our conscious activities in life.
By this I mean that there is lot of non-verbal, non-thinking activity that is performed by the mind. As we go through the day we experience several incidents and interact with a lot of people. While a lot of our interactions are accompanied by verbal thought, there is a large portion that is handled by non-verbal thought. There are many incidents of the day that are handled by this non verbal mind which absorbs the incident and organizes it into its appropriate slot.
Actually behind the scenes this non verbal mind makes a judgement, opinions and draws conclusions based on our inner values, likes and dislikes. Hence behind the thinking mind the non-thinking mind works incessantly in its own way. So don't be surprised when you find that you like or something intensely without you realizing it.
This is also the reason why sometimes we cannot explain why we sometimes are so inexplicably sad, or happy or why we feel drawn towards someone or something. All this is the work of the non verbal, thoughtless mind.
Hence while it is true that a lot is done by the non-verbal thought, this mind is based on our past memories, our values, beliefs and thousands of years of human evolution. So while we have no immediate control over this non-thinking mind we can essentially train this mind through our conscious activities in life.
Friday, April 1, 2011
It feels good to be miserable
The above statement must sound nothing short of blasphemous. How can one feel good when one is feeling down in the dumps? It simply does not seem to make sense. But what is suggested in this article is that when we feel miserable we should quietly tell ourselves “I am feeling miserable but I am feeling good”. By doing this we will be going against the grain of thousands of years of evolution of mankind where we are conditioned and programmed to feel lousy when we are miserable.
We may be miserable because our boss did not give us that raise we were expecting, because a subordinate is promoted over us or one of your colleagues is extremely rude to you that day. It is natural to feel miserable, angry and lousy when things happen in way that is different to our liking. The natural tendency when this happens is that we would like to sulk and work ourselves into total misery. We will soon start feeling the blues. What is required in this situation is that we should tell ourselves “it feels good to be miserable”. This article is certainly not advocating any masochistic tendencies in you rather it tries to make you look into and understand your feelings. While telling this to ourselves, that it feels good to be miserable, will definitely not reduce the misery, at the very least if we consciously tell this to ourselves we will begin to accept the feeling of misery rather than trying to fight it. When we accept the feeling of misery, which may certainly not be very pleasant, we begin to observe our own feelings that the incident(s) provoked in us. As we become aware of the thought process that has kicked in because of the unsavory incidents of the day we will begin to understand our own selves better. If we keep at it we can try to get to the root of the problem and reflect whether it makes any sense to subject ourselves to the misery rather than just shaking it off.
So while the affirmation to ourselves “that it feels good to be miserable” will not drive away the blues it will definitely make you accept your own feeling towards things besides also giving you a deeper understanding of your beliefs and values that are dear to you.
We may be miserable because our boss did not give us that raise we were expecting, because a subordinate is promoted over us or one of your colleagues is extremely rude to you that day. It is natural to feel miserable, angry and lousy when things happen in way that is different to our liking. The natural tendency when this happens is that we would like to sulk and work ourselves into total misery. We will soon start feeling the blues. What is required in this situation is that we should tell ourselves “it feels good to be miserable”. This article is certainly not advocating any masochistic tendencies in you rather it tries to make you look into and understand your feelings. While telling this to ourselves, that it feels good to be miserable, will definitely not reduce the misery, at the very least if we consciously tell this to ourselves we will begin to accept the feeling of misery rather than trying to fight it. When we accept the feeling of misery, which may certainly not be very pleasant, we begin to observe our own feelings that the incident(s) provoked in us. As we become aware of the thought process that has kicked in because of the unsavory incidents of the day we will begin to understand our own selves better. If we keep at it we can try to get to the root of the problem and reflect whether it makes any sense to subject ourselves to the misery rather than just shaking it off.
So while the affirmation to ourselves “that it feels good to be miserable” will not drive away the blues it will definitely make you accept your own feeling towards things besides also giving you a deeper understanding of your beliefs and values that are dear to you.
Thursday, March 31, 2011
Interview Question Ideas
Nothing is more important to an organization than getting candidates who fit into the organizational fabric and culture. Since the time to make this judgement by the interviewer is limited the interviewer needs to judge the candidate on certain key characteristic traits
The following article gives some pointers in determining the candidates attitude, aptitude and personal values of the candidate. Assuming that the candidate is dressed appropriately, has a cheerful appearance then the following questions can be asked
Why are you here?
This can be an initial question to understand the candidates strengths and how he will be augment the organization's mission further. When the candidate is clear on the strengths stemming from his experience and the organization's needs then the interviewer can draw the following conclusions. Firstly it helps in undertanding the candidates background, his knowledge of the business the present organization is in, and how he/she thinks they will fit in the organization.
Why are you leaving your current job?
Make sure that the candidates answer is crisp and clean and he/she is not hiding any facts. Make sure that it is not for petty reasons as money, designation but something more tuned to the candidate's core strengths and how it will further his/her career.
Handling aptitude questions
Make sure that questions of general aptitude are asked. Even though the answer may not be correct make sure the candidate is able to comprehend the problem, enjoys problem solving and comes up with creative approaches to the problem.
Checking intrinsic values of the candidate
Here the interviewer needs to ask questions that will check the moral fibre of the candidate. What does the candidate value more? How does the candidate balance human values with organization's mission and vision? Does he compromise on one for the other or does he strike an interesting balance between the two? These question should be designed to understand the core character of the candidate and his personal value system.
Where do you see yourself in 5/10 years professionally, personally?
Make sure that the candidate has a clear plan on both his career path and his personal growth. What steps does he/she think is necessary to achieve the goals that the candidate has set for himself/herself. This will show whether the candidate plans for the future and is able to think through things.
These question will help in judging the candidates professional strengths and his moral fiber both of which are very important to the organization.
The following article gives some pointers in determining the candidates attitude, aptitude and personal values of the candidate. Assuming that the candidate is dressed appropriately, has a cheerful appearance then the following questions can be asked
Why are you here?
This can be an initial question to understand the candidates strengths and how he will be augment the organization's mission further. When the candidate is clear on the strengths stemming from his experience and the organization's needs then the interviewer can draw the following conclusions. Firstly it helps in undertanding the candidates background, his knowledge of the business the present organization is in, and how he/she thinks they will fit in the organization.
Why are you leaving your current job?
Make sure that the candidates answer is crisp and clean and he/she is not hiding any facts. Make sure that it is not for petty reasons as money, designation but something more tuned to the candidate's core strengths and how it will further his/her career.
Handling aptitude questions
Make sure that questions of general aptitude are asked. Even though the answer may not be correct make sure the candidate is able to comprehend the problem, enjoys problem solving and comes up with creative approaches to the problem.
Checking intrinsic values of the candidate
Here the interviewer needs to ask questions that will check the moral fibre of the candidate. What does the candidate value more? How does the candidate balance human values with organization's mission and vision? Does he compromise on one for the other or does he strike an interesting balance between the two? These question should be designed to understand the core character of the candidate and his personal value system.
Where do you see yourself in 5/10 years professionally, personally?
Make sure that the candidate has a clear plan on both his career path and his personal growth. What steps does he/she think is necessary to achieve the goals that the candidate has set for himself/herself. This will show whether the candidate plans for the future and is able to think through things.
These question will help in judging the candidates professional strengths and his moral fiber both of which are very important to the organization.
Interview mistakes to avoid
As a professional there will be occasions when we have to put our best foot forward to make the best impression on the interviewing panel. In this regard there are certain things that we should definitely avoid
Dressing inappropriately : By far this sends the quickest negative signal to the interview panel. Make sure you read up on the organization's dress code and dress appropriately. Make sure that you wear a tie and a suit for business jobs and for organizations which have a formal attire. Similarly make sure that you dress
casually to interview where the organization's dress code is informal.
Being tense and nervous: When you walk through the door to face the interview panel don't advertise your nervousness with a tense face. Make sure that you greet the panel with a cheerful good morning/afternoon etc. Also dont forget to thank the interviewer after you finish your interview.
Hiding unpalateable facts: Don't try to hide unpalatable facts in your employment history. It is better to be confident and honest rather than projecting that there is something fishy in your past. Dont be evasive about your own experience.
Avoid giving roundabout answers: When you are not sure about the answer to a question do not give vague and round about answers. Make sure that you admit that you don't know but are willing to give the question a honest attempt.
Not knowing what you want: Nothing rings louder warning bells to the interviewer than a candidate who does not know what he himself wants. If the interviewer asks what kind of role and designation that you would be interested in, make sure that your answer is crisp and clear.
Failing to attempt aptitude problems: There are many organization that test a candidate's problem solving aptitude and attitude by giving problems. Do not shy away from the problem. Make sure that you give the problem your best and smartest effort.
Being ignorant of the organization's business: Don't go unprepared to an interview without knowing the business in which the organization is in.
These are some of the definite don't do's when attending an interview
Dressing inappropriately : By far this sends the quickest negative signal to the interview panel. Make sure you read up on the organization's dress code and dress appropriately. Make sure that you wear a tie and a suit for business jobs and for organizations which have a formal attire. Similarly make sure that you dress
casually to interview where the organization's dress code is informal.
Being tense and nervous: When you walk through the door to face the interview panel don't advertise your nervousness with a tense face. Make sure that you greet the panel with a cheerful good morning/afternoon etc. Also dont forget to thank the interviewer after you finish your interview.
Hiding unpalateable facts: Don't try to hide unpalatable facts in your employment history. It is better to be confident and honest rather than projecting that there is something fishy in your past. Dont be evasive about your own experience.
Avoid giving roundabout answers: When you are not sure about the answer to a question do not give vague and round about answers. Make sure that you admit that you don't know but are willing to give the question a honest attempt.
Not knowing what you want: Nothing rings louder warning bells to the interviewer than a candidate who does not know what he himself wants. If the interviewer asks what kind of role and designation that you would be interested in, make sure that your answer is crisp and clear.
Failing to attempt aptitude problems: There are many organization that test a candidate's problem solving aptitude and attitude by giving problems. Do not shy away from the problem. Make sure that you give the problem your best and smartest effort.
Being ignorant of the organization's business: Don't go unprepared to an interview without knowing the business in which the organization is in.
These are some of the definite don't do's when attending an interview
Saturday, March 26, 2011
What do you want in Life?
Imagine for a moment that God descended to the earth and told you that he is willing to grant you one wish. What will it be? Confronted with a direct question like this in all probability we will not have an answer. We may think that we would like that dream job, or maybe marry that pretty girl in our life or inherit a lot of wealth. Others may want perpetual happiness or immortality coupled with a great job, a perfect wife and so on.
So if the Lord asked us the same question next we day we will most probably say that we have not still not made up our mind. The truth is most of the times we don’t know what we want. We have some hazy, vague concept of what would make us happy. We want to be generally happy, have power over some people, recognition for something and a lot of riches. The sad thing is that, we feel unhappy and miserable when we don’t get this fuzzy thing which we want in life. We chase these illusions of the mind and think that getting it will make us happy.
Having said that we should spend time in looking deep into ourselves and understand what we really want. We may be surprised that given a hard look we really don’t need a lot of riches but probably just enough to get by in life. We probably want to spend quality time with our family, learn something new like painting or playing an instrument. If we do this exercise we can come to some concrete understanding of what we want in this finite life of ours.
Once we understand what we want in life we don’t need to wait for God to descend from heaven and grant us our wishes. We can take proactively take steps and start trying to do achieve what we most want in our life.
So the important thing is not to chase illusory dreams that we have in our minds but to spend time identifying what we really want and what we really need in our lives and then set about achieving it. This will give us both satisfaction and contentment in life.
So if the Lord asked us the same question next we day we will most probably say that we have not still not made up our mind. The truth is most of the times we don’t know what we want. We have some hazy, vague concept of what would make us happy. We want to be generally happy, have power over some people, recognition for something and a lot of riches. The sad thing is that, we feel unhappy and miserable when we don’t get this fuzzy thing which we want in life. We chase these illusions of the mind and think that getting it will make us happy.
Having said that we should spend time in looking deep into ourselves and understand what we really want. We may be surprised that given a hard look we really don’t need a lot of riches but probably just enough to get by in life. We probably want to spend quality time with our family, learn something new like painting or playing an instrument. If we do this exercise we can come to some concrete understanding of what we want in this finite life of ours.
Once we understand what we want in life we don’t need to wait for God to descend from heaven and grant us our wishes. We can take proactively take steps and start trying to do achieve what we most want in our life.
So the important thing is not to chase illusory dreams that we have in our minds but to spend time identifying what we really want and what we really need in our lives and then set about achieving it. This will give us both satisfaction and contentment in life.
What will you do if you met ...
You. Yes, what would you do if by some strange magical quirk of fate you bumped into yourself in person. Don’t be too surprised if you develop an instant dislike to yourself. It is quite possible that you may find yourself arrogant, irritating, abrasive and quite proud. This may come as a shock to you but it is quite likely that your personality has a lot of surprises to the person to whom it should not come as surprise – that is you.
The reason for the perception disconnect is the fact that most of the times we are not aware of our actions, our reactions to incidents etc. We just react in a mechanical way. When we are filled with anger, jealousy or greed most of the times we do not know what we are doing. These emotions dominate us so completely that we are held captive to their pettiness and behave in a semi-hypnotized way. While it is easy to understand that we should stay away from vices we lose control when they take control. When the five evils of desire (kama) , anger (krodha) , greed (lobha) , delusion (moha) and ego (ahamkara) take control of us we are held captive and behave like automatons. We are completely unaware of our own behavior.
Hence if we by chance meet ourselves we may find that are quite contemptible in many respects. We may find ourselves too proud are just too petty in our acts.
While this hypothetical situation may never occur we will learn a lot about ourselves if it should happen. Fortunately we can come close to such an encounter if only we are more aware of ourselves and are more conscious of our acts.
If we are aware of how the five evils try to take complete control over us, which we know to be wrong, then we can consciously control our reactions to these petty emotions. We need to watch the thoughts that these evils create in us and make sure that we retain the upper hand from these emotions.
If we do this then it is quite likely that we will find ourselves fairly charming if we do bump into ourselves!
The reason for the perception disconnect is the fact that most of the times we are not aware of our actions, our reactions to incidents etc. We just react in a mechanical way. When we are filled with anger, jealousy or greed most of the times we do not know what we are doing. These emotions dominate us so completely that we are held captive to their pettiness and behave in a semi-hypnotized way. While it is easy to understand that we should stay away from vices we lose control when they take control. When the five evils of desire (kama) , anger (krodha) , greed (lobha) , delusion (moha) and ego (ahamkara) take control of us we are held captive and behave like automatons. We are completely unaware of our own behavior.
Hence if we by chance meet ourselves we may find that are quite contemptible in many respects. We may find ourselves too proud are just too petty in our acts.
While this hypothetical situation may never occur we will learn a lot about ourselves if it should happen. Fortunately we can come close to such an encounter if only we are more aware of ourselves and are more conscious of our acts.
If we are aware of how the five evils try to take complete control over us, which we know to be wrong, then we can consciously control our reactions to these petty emotions. We need to watch the thoughts that these evils create in us and make sure that we retain the upper hand from these emotions.
If we do this then it is quite likely that we will find ourselves fairly charming if we do bump into ourselves!
Monday, March 21, 2011
Striking similarities in Matsya Purana and Old Testament
There are some striking similarities between the Matsya Purana of India and the Old Testament of Judeao Christianity. The following excerpts from Matsya Purana and the Old Testament will make this clear
Matsya Purana : The Matsya Purana talks of the story of the king Manu who decided to live a quiet life near a river. One day when he washed his hands in the river a little fish asked him to save him from the big fish saying that it will one day save him in return. Hence King Manu (also known as Satyavrata) put the little fish in a jar. After a few days the fish grew and the king transferred the fish to an urn. It grew even more and had to be transferred to a pond, then a river and finally it was moved to the ocean. When it was put in the ocean the fish asked the king to build a boat and take along with him all types of seeds, eggs, animals and birds. King Manu realised that this was no ordinary fish but was the avatar of Lord Vishnu himself. Subsequently there was a great deluge and the fish with a horn came to King Manu. The King tethered his boat to the horn of the fish using Adisesha the serpent and the fish took King Manu to Mount Mandara. All the living creatures on the earth were wiped out by the deluge except King Manu and the creatures in his boat.
Old Testament : Genesis 6, of the old Testament says that Lord was unhappy with the wickedness of mankind and requested Noah to build an Ark. The Lord told Noah "of very living thing of all flesh, two of every sort shalt thou bring into the ark, to keep them alive with thee they shall be male and female". Hence Noah built a huge ark and like Manu took into the ark seeds and a pair of every living creature. Then there was a deluge which lasted for several days. Noah took his ark to the top of Mount Ararat. All creatures on earth
were destroyed by the deluge except Noah and the creatures in Ark.
The similarity in these stories are really striking. Was there really a great deluge about 1200 B.C. Did the legend of Manu travel to the West or did the story of Noah's Ark travel to India. The common thread in both stories is about the deluge which is supposed to have lasted for 7 days and 7 nights.
Matsya Purana : The Matsya Purana talks of the story of the king Manu who decided to live a quiet life near a river. One day when he washed his hands in the river a little fish asked him to save him from the big fish saying that it will one day save him in return. Hence King Manu (also known as Satyavrata) put the little fish in a jar. After a few days the fish grew and the king transferred the fish to an urn. It grew even more and had to be transferred to a pond, then a river and finally it was moved to the ocean. When it was put in the ocean the fish asked the king to build a boat and take along with him all types of seeds, eggs, animals and birds. King Manu realised that this was no ordinary fish but was the avatar of Lord Vishnu himself. Subsequently there was a great deluge and the fish with a horn came to King Manu. The King tethered his boat to the horn of the fish using Adisesha the serpent and the fish took King Manu to Mount Mandara. All the living creatures on the earth were wiped out by the deluge except King Manu and the creatures in his boat.
Old Testament : Genesis 6, of the old Testament says that Lord was unhappy with the wickedness of mankind and requested Noah to build an Ark. The Lord told Noah "of very living thing of all flesh, two of every sort shalt thou bring into the ark, to keep them alive with thee they shall be male and female". Hence Noah built a huge ark and like Manu took into the ark seeds and a pair of every living creature. Then there was a deluge which lasted for several days. Noah took his ark to the top of Mount Ararat. All creatures on earth
were destroyed by the deluge except Noah and the creatures in Ark.
The similarity in these stories are really striking. Was there really a great deluge about 1200 B.C. Did the legend of Manu travel to the West or did the story of Noah's Ark travel to India. The common thread in both stories is about the deluge which is supposed to have lasted for 7 days and 7 nights.
An Adventure called Life
If we really pause to think for moment we will realise that our lives are one big adventure. Every moment that we encounter in our lives unfolds new things, new challenges and new mysteries for us to unravel. We always have to be alert to handle these challenges that our lives throw our way.
None of us know what is going to happen the next moment. Nobody can divine the future and that is precisely what make our journey in life so enjoyable. There is untold mystery in every moment. Life throws ups new problems, puzzles and conundrums for us to crack. The problemes could be in the personal or professional space but it is brand new challenge that we are confronted with. When we solve the problem we move up a notch in life with the lessons learned. Life and time are the greatest teachers of mankind.
Yesterday, while gazing out of the window of my train I saw another train passing by. Ordinarily I would not have given it more than a fleeting glance but yesterday I was really fascinated by the huge mechanical contraption chugging in the opposite direction. I was amazed that man has been able to use his intelligence in making such a grand design to carry men and goods across long distances. There are several such brillant inventions where human beings have solved difficult problems and conundrums of nature.
Whichever side you look you will always find the progress made by human thought is great. Whether it is computer science, medicine, physics, bio-technology creative writing etc. All these have been possible because man has used his intelligence and creativity to solve the difficult problems of nature and life.
As long as we are filled with wonder at nature and human ingenuity, all problems that our life throws up will be regarded as just another test for us to pass and progress in life. The most important ingredient for success is to have an unquenchable zest for life.
None of us know what is going to happen the next moment. Nobody can divine the future and that is precisely what make our journey in life so enjoyable. There is untold mystery in every moment. Life throws ups new problems, puzzles and conundrums for us to crack. The problemes could be in the personal or professional space but it is brand new challenge that we are confronted with. When we solve the problem we move up a notch in life with the lessons learned. Life and time are the greatest teachers of mankind.
Yesterday, while gazing out of the window of my train I saw another train passing by. Ordinarily I would not have given it more than a fleeting glance but yesterday I was really fascinated by the huge mechanical contraption chugging in the opposite direction. I was amazed that man has been able to use his intelligence in making such a grand design to carry men and goods across long distances. There are several such brillant inventions where human beings have solved difficult problems and conundrums of nature.
Whichever side you look you will always find the progress made by human thought is great. Whether it is computer science, medicine, physics, bio-technology creative writing etc. All these have been possible because man has used his intelligence and creativity to solve the difficult problems of nature and life.
As long as we are filled with wonder at nature and human ingenuity, all problems that our life throws up will be regarded as just another test for us to pass and progress in life. The most important ingredient for success is to have an unquenchable zest for life.
Sunday, March 20, 2011
Changing Gears in Life
Our lives are never smooth sailing. We are always faced with different situations constantly in life. To navigate smoothly through life we need to change gears at appropriate times in order to handle different situations.
There are two classes of people. Those who live in constant fear of the future and spoil the present for themselves. And then there are those who just drift about aimlessly in life. Both these types of people need to change gears to handle their current position.
Those who worry and are anxious about a terrifying future must shift a gear down. They need slow their lives. They need to take each day as it comes and not worry about a distant future. Why should one worry about something that may only happen in future. By worrying about the future in the present we make our lives unbearable.We should take each day as it comes. If the crisis, which we imagine, does occur, then we will be better equipped to handle as we would not have wasted our energies worrying about it even before it happens.
Then there are others who just exist from day to day. They just seem to go through the motions of the day just existing and living in a mechanical way. They seem to devoid of any purpose. They are bored and listless with their lives. These people need to shift a gear up and set little goals in their life, If they try to achieve the little targets that they set for themselves then their life will have a purpose. It is very essential that we have a clear plan of where we want to go in future and how we will achieve it in the present. Our lives will be more full if we take this approach.
Hence as we travel through life we need to make appropriate changes so that we move towards thr future with a purpose and without undue worries.
There are two classes of people. Those who live in constant fear of the future and spoil the present for themselves. And then there are those who just drift about aimlessly in life. Both these types of people need to change gears to handle their current position.
Those who worry and are anxious about a terrifying future must shift a gear down. They need slow their lives. They need to take each day as it comes and not worry about a distant future. Why should one worry about something that may only happen in future. By worrying about the future in the present we make our lives unbearable.We should take each day as it comes. If the crisis, which we imagine, does occur, then we will be better equipped to handle as we would not have wasted our energies worrying about it even before it happens.
Then there are others who just exist from day to day. They just seem to go through the motions of the day just existing and living in a mechanical way. They seem to devoid of any purpose. They are bored and listless with their lives. These people need to shift a gear up and set little goals in their life, If they try to achieve the little targets that they set for themselves then their life will have a purpose. It is very essential that we have a clear plan of where we want to go in future and how we will achieve it in the present. Our lives will be more full if we take this approach.
Hence as we travel through life we need to make appropriate changes so that we move towards thr future with a purpose and without undue worries.
Sunday, March 13, 2011
Right Living
We never lives our lives in isolation. Our individual lives are made of events and interactions with other people.We interact within the family, with friends, colleagues our bosses and others.Not all of these interactions are according to our taste. During the course of our life there will be many events that happen to us. Failures, victories and personal losses. There will be many things that will make us sad, angry, or plain upset. There will be some things which we will be able to set right and others which we just have to put up with. These are things that are beyond our control. The important thing is that we should not let the external world influence us beyound a certain limit. We should not let the external world of events and interactions influence our inner world of peace. We should do our best to solve the issues as see fit but beyond that we need to move on in life.
We human beings are diferent from all other creatures in a unique way. While our lives are determined by external events and interaction we can of our own volition determine and influence the external world through our inner drives. So while we should not wallow in hatred or self pity because of external events or interactions we need to take steps to perform positive actions in the world.
All us of us internally have hopes and ambitions. We should take steps to put these hopes and dreams of ours to real action. For example we may dream of trying our hand at some creative activity like writing poems or painting. We may be interested in learning in music or playing some musical instrument. There may be others who want to spend some of their leisure time in participating in some social cause or helping the under priveleged. The key thing here is that we should mobilize ourselves into these positive actions and not squander our time in feeling upset or hurt because somebody said or did something to us.
We should not live our lives outside-in but we should live our lives inside-out. What is meant by this is that we should be bogged down by the world of external events and interactions. Rather we should determine things in the world by our internal ambitions and passions.
The key to living fully in life hence depends on one's abiltiy to take one's problems in one's stride while at the same time initiating action to realize their passions and dreams
We human beings are diferent from all other creatures in a unique way. While our lives are determined by external events and interaction we can of our own volition determine and influence the external world through our inner drives. So while we should not wallow in hatred or self pity because of external events or interactions we need to take steps to perform positive actions in the world.
All us of us internally have hopes and ambitions. We should take steps to put these hopes and dreams of ours to real action. For example we may dream of trying our hand at some creative activity like writing poems or painting. We may be interested in learning in music or playing some musical instrument. There may be others who want to spend some of their leisure time in participating in some social cause or helping the under priveleged. The key thing here is that we should mobilize ourselves into these positive actions and not squander our time in feeling upset or hurt because somebody said or did something to us.
We should not live our lives outside-in but we should live our lives inside-out. What is meant by this is that we should be bogged down by the world of external events and interactions. Rather we should determine things in the world by our internal ambitions and passions.
The key to living fully in life hence depends on one's abiltiy to take one's problems in one's stride while at the same time initiating action to realize their passions and dreams
Thursday, March 10, 2011
Redefining happiness
The human yardstick for happiness is the success one achievs in life. And success to most of us is measured in terms of wealth, fame, power and recognition. When we don't achieve these things life we assume that we are unsuccessful which in turn results in us being unhappy. However these measures of happiness are a social invention through the ages and in reality should not have any bearing one's happiness.We are programmed
to feel elated when we achieve material successes like fame, wealth and power the reality.
However,with a little thought we realize that happiness is a personal emotion and is of our creation. With a little introspection we will realize that happiness or contentment does not require external successes or validation but depends
more on our inner victories that we achieve.
We need to set small, realistic goals for ourselves and strive to achieve perfection in them. For example we could learn to play a musical instrument, or spend some time in creative arts like painting, writing etc. The satisfaction that we gain by achieving success in our personal goals will result in real personal satisfaction and contentment in us. So we can measure our inner joys by the little achievements we make towards our own personal goals. We should not hitch our happiness to external validation.
Besides, there are other sources of happiness in the real world. We could find joy in the innocence of children or in the endearing qualities of older people. We could find happiness in the accident of human life and its place in the cosmos. We need to understand that we are just minute specks in the vastness of the universe. We could find true pleasure in the evolution of life or as Kahlil Gibran puts it as "Life's longing for itself"
Hence there are many avenues for happiness in life and we should not base our happiness in life on a narrow view of success on achievement of money,power and fame but on tre internal peace and contentment.
to feel elated when we achieve material successes like fame, wealth and power the reality.
However,with a little thought we realize that happiness is a personal emotion and is of our creation. With a little introspection we will realize that happiness or contentment does not require external successes or validation but depends
more on our inner victories that we achieve.
We need to set small, realistic goals for ourselves and strive to achieve perfection in them. For example we could learn to play a musical instrument, or spend some time in creative arts like painting, writing etc. The satisfaction that we gain by achieving success in our personal goals will result in real personal satisfaction and contentment in us. So we can measure our inner joys by the little achievements we make towards our own personal goals. We should not hitch our happiness to external validation.
Besides, there are other sources of happiness in the real world. We could find joy in the innocence of children or in the endearing qualities of older people. We could find happiness in the accident of human life and its place in the cosmos. We need to understand that we are just minute specks in the vastness of the universe. We could find true pleasure in the evolution of life or as Kahlil Gibran puts it as "Life's longing for itself"
Hence there are many avenues for happiness in life and we should not base our happiness in life on a narrow view of success on achievement of money,power and fame but on tre internal peace and contentment.
Monday, March 7, 2011
Untying the Devil-Deep Sea Bind
There are times in our life when we are caught in a real bind. We feel that we are caught between the Devil and the Deep Sea or in effect a position of extreme difficulty, the alternative to which seems to be another position of even worse consequences. In these situations we really tie ourselves into knots and it appears that we have been effectively checkmated by fate.
A typical situation could be when your boss at office makes you life a living hell every day. While you sweat in office and you are in a mental turmoil it appears that there are no alternatives to your situation. The alternative of quitting your job appears scary and you really are worried whether you will land a job in the first place. There may be many other such situations at home or in personal relationships where the present situation and the other possible alternative appear extremely painful.
What does one do in these situations? Typically when we find ourselves caught between the devil-deep sea or caught between the frying pan-fire situation what we need to do is to stop tormenting our mind on the seeming impossibility of situation. We need to allocate some time during the day or week when we can look at our situation in a more composed manner.
We first need to look at the pros and cons of our current situation vis-à-vis the alternative position. If our boss is torturing us on a daily basis first we need to look at whether we can remedy the situation. Can we do things differently that will make our current situation any better. If so then we need to accept that our current issues are of our own making and we should put our whole hearted effort in solving all the issues in the current state of affairs. While at first sight it may appear that the only alternative to your current position is to quit, in reality there may be openings for your skills in other departments of your organization.
However if we reached a point of no-return in our current position then we need to look at the alternative for e.g. quitting or getting another job. This may seem to be a daunting and scary prospect. Typically our imagination will tend to run riot where we will imagine that we are jobless for many months. However if we address this in a level headed manner we may find that the situation may not be really as frightening as it seems. If we connect with our friends and actively look at the job market we may actually land a much better job.
Hence there will be situations in which we will be in bind for which there will appear to be no escape route. However if we cease to be overly emotional about the situation and analyze it in a rational way we may find different possibilities do exist. So rather than getting stuck in blinkered-thinking where it appears that there are only two possibilities to your current state in life if we put our mind to it we may actually land up in much more creative possibilities.
A typical situation could be when your boss at office makes you life a living hell every day. While you sweat in office and you are in a mental turmoil it appears that there are no alternatives to your situation. The alternative of quitting your job appears scary and you really are worried whether you will land a job in the first place. There may be many other such situations at home or in personal relationships where the present situation and the other possible alternative appear extremely painful.
What does one do in these situations? Typically when we find ourselves caught between the devil-deep sea or caught between the frying pan-fire situation what we need to do is to stop tormenting our mind on the seeming impossibility of situation. We need to allocate some time during the day or week when we can look at our situation in a more composed manner.
We first need to look at the pros and cons of our current situation vis-à-vis the alternative position. If our boss is torturing us on a daily basis first we need to look at whether we can remedy the situation. Can we do things differently that will make our current situation any better. If so then we need to accept that our current issues are of our own making and we should put our whole hearted effort in solving all the issues in the current state of affairs. While at first sight it may appear that the only alternative to your current position is to quit, in reality there may be openings for your skills in other departments of your organization.
However if we reached a point of no-return in our current position then we need to look at the alternative for e.g. quitting or getting another job. This may seem to be a daunting and scary prospect. Typically our imagination will tend to run riot where we will imagine that we are jobless for many months. However if we address this in a level headed manner we may find that the situation may not be really as frightening as it seems. If we connect with our friends and actively look at the job market we may actually land a much better job.
Hence there will be situations in which we will be in bind for which there will appear to be no escape route. However if we cease to be overly emotional about the situation and analyze it in a rational way we may find different possibilities do exist. So rather than getting stuck in blinkered-thinking where it appears that there are only two possibilities to your current state in life if we put our mind to it we may actually land up in much more creative possibilities.
Sunday, March 6, 2011
The Ride of Life
Our lives are one long journey in time. We each go through life in our own specific vehicle “the mind”. We are the occupants of this vehicle and we go through the different stages of life in it. This psycho-physical vehicle, the mind, which we will call the PPV, is unique from other vehicles we know of. Unlike other vehicles the PPV has a mind of its own (pun unintended). While we are the effective driver of the PPV there are many times in life when the PPV can take over the control and takes us on a trip. The other important fact about the PPV is that it programmed or conditioned from our past experiences, from our habits and from our biases.
To a majority of us the PPV takes us on a ride and we are not even aware of it. The PPV decides on destinations and also the routes it needs to take. It may decide that the destination is “greed” and it will take us on a greedy trip. Alternatively the PPV may decide to embark on a “pride” trip which will result in feeding our ego. While we may experience the different emotions that the PPV chooses for us, most of the times we don’t even realize that we are being taken for a ride.
When the emotions of greed, conceit, hatred take a hold of us we are aware of its effects. The mind wrests complete control over us and we are in its sway. Unless we consciously decide to put ourselves in the driver’s seat and consciously steer our lives we will be buffeted by pettiness and evil ideas.
All great sages from time immemorial have stressed the importance of being constantly aware of the workings of the mind. However it is also the most difficult, unless we consciously put our whole hearted effort towards it.
Hence we must ensure that we are not driven by the mind but control our journey in life based on good values of integrity, compassion and kindness.
To a majority of us the PPV takes us on a ride and we are not even aware of it. The PPV decides on destinations and also the routes it needs to take. It may decide that the destination is “greed” and it will take us on a greedy trip. Alternatively the PPV may decide to embark on a “pride” trip which will result in feeding our ego. While we may experience the different emotions that the PPV chooses for us, most of the times we don’t even realize that we are being taken for a ride.
When the emotions of greed, conceit, hatred take a hold of us we are aware of its effects. The mind wrests complete control over us and we are in its sway. Unless we consciously decide to put ourselves in the driver’s seat and consciously steer our lives we will be buffeted by pettiness and evil ideas.
All great sages from time immemorial have stressed the importance of being constantly aware of the workings of the mind. However it is also the most difficult, unless we consciously put our whole hearted effort towards it.
Hence we must ensure that we are not driven by the mind but control our journey in life based on good values of integrity, compassion and kindness.
Friday, March 4, 2011
Parallels in Hindu and Christian philosophy
It is remarkable that Hindu and Christian philosophies which evolved independently of one another more than 2 millenniums ago have such striking similarities.
1) The Bible maintains that all human beings have a soul behind the material body. The Bible also states that somebody can hurt the body but not the soul which is immortal. According to the Hindu belief behind the body is the unchangeable Atman which is immutable and eternal. In Chapter 2 of the Gita Krishna expounds "That which pervades the entire body you should know to be indestructible. No one is able to destroy that imperishable Atman."
2) According to Christian thought is the concept of sin. Based on our actions in this world we will be judged on the ‘day of judgment’ when the good deeds of the person will be weighed against the bad deeds. A virtuous person will enter heaven or the kingdom of God and an evil person will enter Hell. Similarly according to the Mahabharata there is a concept of “swarga” or heaven and “naraga” or hell. Chitragupta is the king who keeps tally of the good acts of the person against the evil acts and sends the person to either swarga or naraga. However the Hindu philosophy differs slightly from Christian thought in that a human being’s stay in swarga or naraga is not permanent and he will have to undergo another rebirth. The concept of rebirth is not there in Biblical thought.
3) In the Bible, in Matthew 7.7 are the words “Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you”. There is a similar saying in the Ramayana which states “If only it would ask, it would tell the truth”.
It is really amazing that these two major religions of the world have such similar ideology.
Thursday, March 3, 2011
Karma, Sin - Myth or Real ?
The law of karma is central to Hindu philosophy. According to the law of karma a man’s situation in any point in his life is the consequence of his past acts. In other words karma can be summed up as “Good actions beget good results and evil actions beget evil results. Similarly, in Christian thought is the concept of sin or evil. According to Christian thought, a person will receive his punishment for his evil deeds on the “day of judgment”. Every major religion in the world has similar ideas where one’s evil ways will always return to the perpetrator himself and ones good deeds will always result in good providence.
Is the law of karma or the theory of sin and punishment real or is just a myth? When one looks at karma or sin superficially one is led to believe that these theories are brilliant ploys of our bright ancestors for keeping mankind on the right path. The law of karma definitely does explain unexpected troubles that come our way. We can conveniently say that we must have done something bad in this life or in our past lives and hence we are bound to undergo the suffering. Similarly we expect evil people to be punished for their evil acts. But we do see instances of evil people in our midst who are happy and successful and there are good people who undergo undue hardships.
However a deeper analysis into either karma or sin will show that there is an underlying principle of truth behind it. Karma and sin can be explained as below.
We human beings come into this world with pre-programmed behaviors. This in-built program of ours is the result of the generations of evolution of mankind from time immemorial. In these programmed behaviors of ours are the wisdom, common sense and values of our ancestors. We can either look at them as our genetic programming or the repository of conscious, sub conscious and unconscious behavior transferred to us through the ages. These learning’s and wisdom of our ancestors and forefathers are handed down to us as our programmed behavior. For e.g. in these programs will be rules like kindness -> joy, compassion –> joy, anger ->pain, hatred -> pain, violence -> pain and so on. These rules are reinforced as we grow from a child to an adult. A person’s individual values are not just the result of environment and parents alone and we do not learn all the intricacies of human behavior in one lifetime, from a child to an adult. There is a lot which comes to us in our pre-programmed unconscious self as the wisdom from our ancestors.
When we violate the law of karma or commit a sin we are actually changing some of these in-built rules. When we try to change one of the rules from violence -> pain to violence-joy then we run against the grain of human understanding and human wisdom. Not only do we mutate our own rules when we commit such a violation but such a change will also result in a jarring effect on others. People around us will subconsciously or unconsciously recognize that a violation of one of basic rules has happened. Hence when we go against the time-tested wisdom or the in-built wisdom of our ancestors the result will be incorrect and we will reap the evil that we caused. In fact our voice of conscience is nothing but these inner programs telling us that we are violating a basic rule of human wisdom.
Hence karma or the principle of sin are not just idle inventions of our ancestors but are real and true. They are eternal truths discovered by our forefathers which have with stood the tests of logic, reason and time.
Is the law of karma or the theory of sin and punishment real or is just a myth? When one looks at karma or sin superficially one is led to believe that these theories are brilliant ploys of our bright ancestors for keeping mankind on the right path. The law of karma definitely does explain unexpected troubles that come our way. We can conveniently say that we must have done something bad in this life or in our past lives and hence we are bound to undergo the suffering. Similarly we expect evil people to be punished for their evil acts. But we do see instances of evil people in our midst who are happy and successful and there are good people who undergo undue hardships.
However a deeper analysis into either karma or sin will show that there is an underlying principle of truth behind it. Karma and sin can be explained as below.
We human beings come into this world with pre-programmed behaviors. This in-built program of ours is the result of the generations of evolution of mankind from time immemorial. In these programmed behaviors of ours are the wisdom, common sense and values of our ancestors. We can either look at them as our genetic programming or the repository of conscious, sub conscious and unconscious behavior transferred to us through the ages. These learning’s and wisdom of our ancestors and forefathers are handed down to us as our programmed behavior. For e.g. in these programs will be rules like kindness -> joy, compassion –> joy, anger ->pain, hatred -> pain, violence -> pain and so on. These rules are reinforced as we grow from a child to an adult. A person’s individual values are not just the result of environment and parents alone and we do not learn all the intricacies of human behavior in one lifetime, from a child to an adult. There is a lot which comes to us in our pre-programmed unconscious self as the wisdom from our ancestors.
When we violate the law of karma or commit a sin we are actually changing some of these in-built rules. When we try to change one of the rules from violence -> pain to violence-joy then we run against the grain of human understanding and human wisdom. Not only do we mutate our own rules when we commit such a violation but such a change will also result in a jarring effect on others. People around us will subconsciously or unconsciously recognize that a violation of one of basic rules has happened. Hence when we go against the time-tested wisdom or the in-built wisdom of our ancestors the result will be incorrect and we will reap the evil that we caused. In fact our voice of conscience is nothing but these inner programs telling us that we are violating a basic rule of human wisdom.
Hence karma or the principle of sin are not just idle inventions of our ancestors but are real and true. They are eternal truths discovered by our forefathers which have with stood the tests of logic, reason and time.
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